Book Review: Deceptively Delicious and The Sneaky Chef

Can't get your kids to eat vegetables?


Well, now you can just sneak it into their food!

Jessica Seinfeld and Missy Chase Lapine both seem to agree that hiding vegetables in traditional recipes is the best way to get children to eat them.

Raise your hand if you agree that hiding vegetables in unsuspecting dishes will help your child develop the taste and desire to eat them.

Raise your hand if you agree that this teaches children how to delight in plant foods.

Raise your hand if you agree that sneaky behaviors such as this might reinforce your child's own sneaky behaviors in the future.

Oh, you don't plan on telling them that their favorite cookies have kale in them?

While I have to admit that I actually did not acquire a taste for a number of vegetables, like okra, kale and Brussels sprouts, until I started to prepare them myself, I don't think I would have appreciated my mother making me eat them by 'hiding' them in my favorite foods as a child. That would have just been added to the list of things she'd lied to me about previously, like the Tooth Fairy and Santa Claus. She was probably more upset when I started when I started pulling my loose teeth out shamelessly handing them to her.

The things we do for money.

I fail to see how these books advocate healthy eating, when you'll be encouraged to buy any brand of a processed, pre-packaged box of whatever as an ingredient in say, Mac and Cheese, or worse, suggesting you use baby food past its usage. WHAT?!

Getting children to eat well is a very tedious undertaking. It should not be trivialized further by undermining the benefits of plant foods.

Want to get your kids to eat more vegetables?

Here are a few things to try:

  1. Stop overcooking them. Seriously. Limp broccoli never appeals to anyone. Instead, try blanching or sauteeing veggies for a few minutes, until the color pops. It's important that vegetables retain their crunchiness.
  2. Let your kids help with the meals. Kids want to help, so encourage them to eat their vegetables by allowing them time in the kitchen. They can help wash veggies, tear vegetables like kale, collards, and other leafy greens, and older kids can cut and chop other types.
  3. Make green smoothies. You're not deceiving them by hiding anything, so throw a few spinach leaves in the blender with blueberries, banana and water for a refreshing alternative. (See Green for Life for Green Smoothie recipes)
  4. See how Jinjee and Storm Talifero of The Garden Diet have no problem getting their kids to eat vegetables.

These books are just another attempt to capitalize on the diet book/obesity cure craze, with our children paying dearly for it.

Is anyone else insulted?

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

This is my first time writing in, I've been lurking for a few months.
But I felt I had to share my feelings on this topic.
I actually own both Deceptively Delicious AND Green for Life.
I believe we have to meet people where they are, not just where we
know they should be. I am a near vegan myself with a 2 year old vegan son.
He loves all manner of fruits and vegetables(including green
smoothies), but I'm not so naive as to think that everyone is doing
things as I am in my household.
I don't believe this idea has to be "all or nothing." I truly believe
it can be "both AND". If we're cooking for children or adults who
are not used to eating wholesome food, we have to start SOMEWHERE.
And comparing hiding vegetables in favorite foods to lying about Santa
Claus and the Tooth Fairy is not a fair comparison. Those are fairy
tales. Eating nutritions food from childhood is life saving... Any
way we can get them into our children, I'm all for it.
Everyone's not
going to do it perfectly. Those books are written by mothers who seem
to care about the health and well being of their kids. I also don't
suspect that money was Jessica Seinfeld's motivation. Do you really
think she needs any more cash?
I don't mean to be argumentative, but I have been reading many
negative responses online to the idea of hiding the vegetables so kids
will eat them and I think they're misguided. How about applauding ANY
attempt to feed our kids more wholesome food, even if it means
starting at the lowest common denominator and working up from there? What if someone wasn't
"deceptive" with their video camera at the slaughter house in Chino, California? Then we would not know of the horrors and animal cruelty that was going on there and as a result, there would not be the much needed beef recall that is now taking place. How many of us have decided to become vegan because of the courageous undercover work of animal rights activists who have informed us of what really goes on behind the closed doors of these hellish dens of torture known as slaughter houses?
Or on a lighter note, have any of us ever been on the receiving or planning end of a surprise party? There had to be some "deceit" involved on the part of us or our loved ones in order to pull it off.
I don't know about you, but I was happy that my loved ones thought enough of me to to be "sneaky". Just like I am so thankful to those from the Humane Society with the hidden video camera and the parents who care enough to do whatever it takes to get fruits and vegetables into their kids, even if they didn't start out doing it perfectly from birth.

Just my thoughts

Anonymous said...

a little slow... but...

... look. Enough with the "it's so hard to get kids to eat right!" nonsense. They're your *kids*. You don't let them pick whether or not they're going to play on the freeway, do you?

There's no sense in being punitive... so... prepare some tasty healthy things (lime and butter on the broccoli, friends!), lay in a nice supply of fresh fruit, some cut veg and maybe a creamy yogurt-based dip or something... hummus...

... then excise the oreos from the cupboard. Might be a hard month... but hungry's hungry... and eventually they're going to eat the apples, y'know?

Your little dude/ette has to pretty messed up not to eat that doesn't taste bad if they're actually hungry. And if they don't... well, then the problem was never the oranges in the first place... and you should be looking for your solution somewhere besides the frozen foods section.

... so. Yes. I'm offended.

Anonymous said...

... oh. what a mess of a sentence. that's what I get for meandering.

* "Your little dude/ette has to be pretty messed up not to eat food that doesn't taste bad if they're actually hungry.